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People Do Not Change – at least not the way you want them to.

Missing this point can lead to spending time with, even marrying, the wrong people.
Remember the old cliche “You can’t teach an old Dog New tricks? Well, people are a bit like old dogs. And both the trainer and trainee will be frustrated by the whole process.

So, try to avoid people who are trying to change you. You can feel this as they are often giving you ‘gentle’ hints on how you can be better at something.

Just as important, do not ‘go after’ someone who ‘will be’ perfect once you get them to change just a couple of things. It’s best to assume that these people will not change the way you want. Then ask the question, ‘if they do not change, do I want this person in my life?’ – Just live with that answer or commit yourself to probably years of struggle with no satisfaction.